More on worship

This is something that I find odd.

There is a fellow who sits in church right in front of us named Ed. Ed is in his early 70's and he's developing some health problems. Specifically he is having little seizures and passing out. How do I know this? Well, because at least half a dozen times he's started shaking and seizing right during the service and I've had to catch him before he slumps to the floor.

The first time this happened it was right in the middle of the sermon. Our parish nurse noticed something was wrong and came running right away. She got him lying down on the pew and started feeling for his pulse etc. and sent someone to call the paramedics. In the confusion, the pastor stopped the sermon and everybody of course, started to crane their heads to see what was going on. Then the pastor said maybe we better pray, so then we prayed and sang hymns until the paramedics came and got Ed. Then we finished the service.

Since that first time, Ed has had maybe half a dozen more episodes like this in church. But now, we mostly just carry on with the service while the nurse and then later the paramedics tend to him. I am puzzled as to why we don't all stop and pray for Ed when he is in such obvious distress. I have made it a point to interupt my worship to intercede for Ed each time this happens. My question is - is that wrong? To interrupt worshipping God, even if it is to pray for another?

I have asked my husband to ask about this at his next lay ministers meeting. He doesn't know why either and he thinks that it is most appropriate for us to set aside the service to intercede for a brother.

What do you think?

July 1st is Canada Day


Eternal Father, Ruler of all nations, on this day when our country celebrates its birth, we thank You for all spiritual and temporal blessings enjoyed in our land. By the power of the Holy Spirit, our hearts are turned to freedom from sin and death that You alone graciously give through Jesus Christ. Amen.


O Canada! Our home and native land!

True patriot love in all thy sons command

With glowing hears we see thee rise,

The True North strong and free!

From far and wide O Canada

We stand on guard for thee.

God keep our land glorious and free!

O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.

O Canada, we stand on guard for thee!

Did I miss you?

I blew away all my links to your blogs when I changed my template. If you were previously in my blogroll and you don't see your blog in the list, please let me know so I can add you back. I was just going by memory, but I'm sure to have missed someone.

Guess who's coming for a visit??

Uncle Ben
&
Hooper Ham!
Otherwise known as Ben & Sam.


This is a cute story:
My brother Jeff has to travel from where they live in Ottawa out to Calgary for his work. While he was gone for about a week one time, Sam and his mom devised a game where she would tie a dish towel around his shoulders and he would become...Super Sam!! Except when Sam said it, it came out "Hooper Ham".

So my brother comes back from his business trip and he's in the kitchen making dinner when Sam comes running in with a dish towel in his hands shouting "HOOP-er HAM! HOOP-er HAM!" and thrusts the dishtowel up at his father. Jeff has no idea what this is all about, but good father that he is says encouragingly to his son, "Yes Sam, it IS a nice towel isn't it?"

Sam tries again. "Wanna be HOOP-er Ham, Daddy!" and offers up the towel again.

"Oh, I see, you want to help with the dishes, do you little fellow? Well come on up and you can help dry."

This is too much for Sam. He collapses on the floor sobbing sadly, "No daddy, I Hooper Ham."

Finally four-year old Ben comes in from the family room to see what the commotion is. He quickly determines that Sam wants the towel tied on his shoulders and clues his father in. Jeff, bewildered, ties the towel on and Sam, happy now, takes off in imaginary flight.

"I HOOP-er HAM!"

Ben and Sam will be appearing at their Aunt Anita's house for a limited engagement this Canada Day weekend.

Perhaps I should clarify...

Oh boy. Sometimes I forget that even though we all serve the same Lord, as Christians we don't always use the same words interchangeably. Beth specifically has asked for clarification of what my understanding of "worship" is. And she's right to ask because our respective understandings of what constitutes worship are informed by our different faith traditions.

Beth describes her understanding of worship thus: "...worship isn't about us...at all - it's only about giving thanks and praise to Him. It is due Him simply because of who He is. It is not about receiving anything other than being received into His presence."

In this model of worship (as I understand it) the purpose of worship is for the worshipper to bring praise and thanksgiving to God for who He is. A Lutheran would whole-heartedly agree that our God is worthy of honour and praise and that in all places and at all times it is appropriate to do so. Where we differ is that a Lutheran understands the worship service itself not primarily as a vehicle for us to give (our praise and worship) but as a vehicle for us to receive (God's gifts of forgiveness and salvation, by way of Word and Sacrament).

Here is how our hymnal Lutheran Worship describes it:
"Our Lord speaks and we listen. His Word bestows what it says. Faith that is born from what is heard acknowledges the gifts received with eager thankfulness and praise. ...Saying back to Him what He has said to us, we repeat what is most true and sure. ...The rhythm of our worship is from Him to us, and then from us back to Him. He gives His gifts, and together we receive and extol them. We build one another up as we speak to one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs."

The reason for this kind of an understanding is simple. We believe and teach that in establishing a faith relationship with the Father, God always acts first. Romans 5:8 "But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."

In fact we deny that man, spiritually dead in His trespasses, even has the capacity to choose Christ, apart from the power of the Holy Spirit. This is important here - it's kind of the key to understanding all of Lutheran theology. We believe and teach that:

--> We are saved by grace (alone)

-->and we receive grace through faith (in Christ alone)

-->and that faith, which receives saving grace, is not of ourselves, but is itself a gift of God. (Ephesians 2:8-9)

In a nutshell, God does it all. It's not surprising then, that our worship practises should reflect that understanding. Historically, the phrase used to describe Lutheran worship is "Divine Service". This helps us understand the rhythm of worship—that it is first and foremost God serving us with His gifts, and then our service to Almighty God in thanksgiving and praise for all He has done.T his rhythm of God giving His gifts and our giving Him thanks is conveyed aptly in the term, Divine Service.

This pattern of worship is not new, nor is it unique. The early Christians used this pattern as well: Acts 2:42 42 "And they continued steadfastly in the apostles’ doctrine (the Word of the Lord) and fellowship, in the breaking of bread (the Sacrament), and in prayers."

I need to clarify a couple of other things as well to address Sara's comments:

It should be noted that Lutheran churches have a adopted a wide variety of worship styles - some are quite contemporary, others are traditional. In Nicaraugua they worship under wooden pavillions, singing hymns accompanied by a guitar. In Nigeria they worship in the open air and their worship music has a distinct African flavour.

This is from the LCMS website: "The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod believes that God's Word never changes, and that the church has no right to change anything clearly taught in or commanded by God's Word. At the same time, The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod believes that the church has no right to make absolute commands that are not contained in Scripture. Where Scripture does not clearly speak, there must be freedom and room for change. Other issues, of course (such as varying sensitivities to change within the congregation, appropriate decorum in worship, the desire to avoid either giving or taking offense unnecessarily) must always be taken into account when a congregation is considering changes that are in the realm of Christian freedom. Since the Bible says nothing about "ushers" (as an example), the LCMS has never made any rules or requirements in this regard. Many congregational traditions have changed in the LCMS over the years for various reasons (such as women sitting on one side of the church and men on the other), but the LCMS is absolutely committed to changing nothing that is clearly taught in God's Word."

Me now: I'm not opposed to allowing contemporary worship, nor do I consider it less "valid" than other forms. I do question the wisdom of offering multiple worship styles in a single church if it's done in an attempt to cater to spiritual immaturity. I'll give you an example: my in-laws attend a church that has a "worship cafe". It's a VERY informal worship service that includes coffee and round-table discussions. My in-laws don't attend that venue themselves, but they speak enthusiastically about it: "it really brings in the twenty-somethings!" I personally think it's unfortunate that the twenty-somethings don't have the spiritual depth to be able to receive God's gifts and give him praise unless their surroundings are tailored exactly to their liking. I may have a preference for a traditional worship style, but that doesn't mean that I can't worship outside of those circumstances. Like the author, I think that offering cafeteria-style worship services actually stunts our spiritual growth because it encourages us to fulfill our own desires first.

I know this is a touchy area. The "worship wars" have raged long before I decided to step in to the fray and have been argued eloquently - on both sides - by minds much greater than my own. But for what it's worth, the objections I have are held out of love and concern for my Brother. Above all, I long for the the day when we will worship as one - Pentecostal beside Lutheran! - before the throne of the Lord.

iPhone schm-iPhone

The reviews of Apple's newest gadget are starting to come in and they're not great. That won't matter a bit. This is the newest "must-have" status symbol and people will line up for days to get their hands on one, despite the $500+ price tag. Because, of course, anybody who's anybody will have one.

Here in Waterloo, home of the Blackberry, the iPhone debut is mostly being ignored. Disdained even. Apple making a smartphone? Please. The consensus is, when people discover the drawbacks of using their iPhone they'll quietly put it away and return to using their Blackberries. Until the next new thing comes along.

It's rampant consumerism and it makes my teeth rattle. Thank goodness Christians aren't like that, right? Not so fast.

Here's an interesting article that examines the influence that consumerism has had on Western Christianity and the danger it poses to the message of the Gospel. It's a bit long, but an interesting read.

I'd never thought before how consumerism may or may not have shaped the church. We're called to be in the world but not of the world, yet it's sometimes hard to not be influenced by the secular worldview that we are exposed to every day. In some cases, the secular worldview is so pervasive we're not even aware of it's incompatibilty with Christianity, especially if it has also entered the church.

We used to go to a Lutheran church just down the street from where we live. This church has embraced a "contemporary" style of worship services. While we attended there, I didn't mind it so much, but we ended up leaving the church because we found that on the whole it was shallow. (Please don't misunderstand me, I love my brothers and sisters at Messiah and it was not a bitter parting.)

We now attend a church all the way across town where the congregation is quite orthodox. The services are wholly liturgical, the music is traditional...and the members are more spiritually mature. No one ever complains that the music "isn't relevant". They understand that worship is not about getting their needs and desires met. It's about receiving God's gifts, and having received them we are empowered to go back out into the world to serve Him.

Like the iPhone, we tried contemporary and it just had too many drawbacks. We're going to stick with traditional.

Silent supper

My dinner was so delicious I have to tell you all about it.

Grilled lemon pepper catfish with mango salsa on rice with mesclun greens. It was so yummy. I wish I had taken a picture of it, it was so pretty with the mangoes. You would have liked it too, I'm sure.

It was just my husband and I for supper tonight. I can't remember the last time it was just the two of us alone for dinner. At home I mean.

It was pretty quiet at the table. Mid-way through dinner my husband spoke up in the silence, "This is nice, isn't it?"

"Yes," I agreed halfheartedly. "Peaceful."

"You miss them don't you?" My husband had this sympathetic look on his face.

"Well, maybe a little," I allowed and put a big forkful of rice into my mouth so I didn't have to speak for a bit.

I guess I just wished I had someone else to share my yummy supper with...

This is me, trying to act like I don't care

Next week I will be practically kid-less!! Woo hoo!

Alli leaves for Ottawa tomorrow morning and Brent is going to a friend's cottage Tuesday afternoon. That just leaves Kirk, who is often at work anyways.

I always miss them like the dickens when they are gone, but I am looking forward to getting into their bedrooms to do a really good cleaning in there. (Yeah, for real. And if you don't understand that impulse, clearly you do not have teenagers living in your home.)

It'll be nice for Ken and I to get some extended one-on-one time.

Plus, you know, we can neck on the couch without having to hear "Get a room!". Heh heh...

I have this CRAZY idea

I've been thinking about this for quite some time now, but I haven't been sure how to broach the subject...so, I'm just gonna put this out there and see what you guys think...


What would you think...




...about having some kind of get-together?





I mean a face-to-face get-together somewhere sorta central that we could all meet IRL.


What would you think of that?


At this point, this is no more than a fond wish of mine. I have no idea if there would be any interest beyond my own and whether it would even be a realistic possibility. I imagine we'd have to plan pretty far in advance to pull something like this off. But would you?


I'm just thinking about it...but if you think you might, at some point in the future be interested in doing something like that, let me know, 'kay?

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How do you pray?


I was wondering, when you pray, do you have a "formula" that you follow each time, or is it more of a free-flow sort of thing?

When I pray in the morning, I begin with Luther's Morning Prayer. (I didn't always start with this, I only just learned it by heart a few years ago.) Then I pray over the concerns of the coming day - but I must admit, I do so quickly. Morning prayer is not a well-formed habit for me yet.

Throughout the day I stop and say little mini-prayers as a prayer need comes to my attention. For example, if I read in your blog that you have a prayer need, I stop and pray right then and there. Or if I hear a fire truck go by, I'll say a quick little prayer for all involved. That kind of thing. On-the-fly intercessory prayer is a better habit in me. Oh, and prayer before meals is an ingrained habit.

My evening prayers...well, to begin with, I have been saying the same prayer, Luther's Evening Prayer, each night for almost 30 years now! (Do you think God is tired of hearing it? Just kidding...) I learned that prayer when I was in Grade 7. I pray at night either kneeling before my bed, or sometimes I get right in bed. Luther's Evening Prayer, then I pray the Creed, then the Lord's Prayer. Every night. Then I pray about what is on my heart - mostly I pray for others and for my kids. I pray for the three children that I am god-mother to. For our World Vision child. Those things I pray for most nights, sometimes one but not the other. It depends on what's on my heart most.
I am not very good about praying for myself, for my needs, be they spiritual or physical. It's usually the last thing that I pray, if at all. Sometimes I do pray for myself, but it is a real struggle for me. It is, I know, connected to my pride. I'm not trying to excuse this - just stating a fact. Again, it's something that I am working on. I've probably prayed for my own needs more in the last year than I ever have and that is in no small part due to the fact that I'm blogging. Every day I am blessed to have you all as models for me, reminding me by your example that I ought to bring all my cares to Him.

So then, how do you pray?